Thursday, 27 March 2014

Opinions....Any?


People call me submissive,docile and naive.Well,even if they don't call me such ,then also i know for sure that all of it is the blatant truth.At times, i see my friends and people have discussions on the general affairs.I sit there blank feeling left out because i haven't decided the 'FOR' and 'AGAINST' of the motion.

WHY SO?

Well !!

Ummmm..

Do i have an answer?

No ! 

Hey wait ! Maybe yes . Maybe not.

Maybe i don't care whatsoever.

This is my attitude on such issues.That makes me less-informed.I loose a lot because of my inability to be an active part of such talks.Also,because of such mannerisms i find it very hard to form an opinion.Laziness and inertia help you attain such unacceptable behavior.When you are not mentally-emotionally involved in a discussion,you arrive at views through mature deliberation.We,being humans are fallible in judgments.So,we must try to form fresh and self opinions.

It's extremely dangerous to not have any opinion at all.This way,others can control your mind.Never let others take over your thinking.They may be entitled to their opinions,but you are the master of your domain.

Opinions help us grow closer to ourselves.We get to know who we really are-Good,bad or ugly?Shy and introvert people generally find it hard to express their opinions in front of people who they feel might disagree.While the assertive and extroverts display their opinions and at times deliberately force their thoughts on others.

In such situations too,you should try not to get influenced and stay true to your mind.Nobody should be able to tame you .So,even if your parents want you to vote for the conventional BJP or Congress this time again,research about the same and arrive at a conclusion.Go ahead and then make a decision.

Your opinions do matter after-all.

Let me know if you found it worth reading or motivating.Love hearing from you.